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Posted on April 16, 2013 via 七転び八起き。 with 91 notes
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You and I painting rainbows when no rain falls on our wall
Smelling raindrops on a hilltop as they fall
You and I laughing loudly with no reasons in our walk
Chasing sunsets, dancing minuet in the dark
Why don’t we just disappear
If that could keep us here?
You and I sharing snow fall and the beach sand on our thoughts
Writing love words with our whispers in our hearts
You and I stealing kisses from each other when we fight
Making wishes on the same star every nightWhy don’t we just dream away
If that could make us stay?
Why can’t we just dream away?
We’re not real, anywayWhy don’t we just stay this high?
Pretend we’re all that fly
Why can’t we just stay this high?
We might rule our own sky
You and I singing solo our very own silly song
Playing lovers of all edens all life long
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Note to self: Inner peace.
ARE YOU WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER?
During a seminar, a woman asked,” How do I know if I am with the right person?”
The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, “It depends. Is that your partner?” In all seriousness, she answered “How do you know?” Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it’s weighing on your mind replied the author.
Here’s the answer.
Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn’t hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn’t have to DO anything. That’s why it’s called “falling” in love.
People in love sometimes say, “I was swept of my feet.”Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It’s a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse’s idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, “Am I with the right person?” And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relationships breakdown.
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the person you found.
People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.
Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.
I’m not saying that you couldn’t fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you’d feel better. But you’d be in the same situation a few years later.
Because (listen carefully to this):
The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the Person you found.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.
Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.
Love is therefore a “decision”. Not just a feeling.
Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO! ♥This note randomly passed through when I scrolled his facebook page one night. All of sudden, It reminds me of things which I seek for answer in recent time. It’s not that I have some relationship problem, in fact everything went normal. It’s just me, wondering. I do overthink, and my contaminated-insecure-mind can easily made up the worst scenario happened if he doesn’t loves me anymore, which in reality everything is all right if we listen to each other. Oh, I think I’m just afraid of losing something great, us.
As it’s going, and I learn, I know I learn it the best way with you. Your maturity calms you down. It help me a lot to ease my impulsive thought. A personal stage which bring you became who you are now, a man with attitude. It surprised me, the way you know me better than I do. Then I know, you are the thing that keep me going. You know, when your heart whisper something true, as your soul and universe told it so to your heart.
For anything we left behind and everything we take on tomorrow, for the good times and bad times we shared, thank you for being such a great company to me. I love you.
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